They say the second time’s a charm. And some folks take that seriously since they divorce and remarry the same person.
In fact, while 80% of divorced people remarry, 6% remarry their former spouse.
Trying again with the same person
According to stats reported by Psychology Today (cited below): “Research suggests that 10-15% of couples reconcile after they separate, and about 6% of couples marry each other again after they divorce.”
Interestingly, research also suggests that the more times a person marries, the more likely they are to get divorced. The divorce rate for second marriages is 67%, and for third marriages, it’s 73%!
But among those who marry the same person a second time, the divorce rate is just 30%.
Psychology Today posts that “the lower rate suggests that the renewed marriage is stronger than it was before the divorce.”
Why get back together?
Around 10% to 15% of couples reconcile after divorce even though only 6% get remarried.
In some cases, this is a result of getting some distance from and perspective on the problems that harmed a marriage in the first place and a desire to work on them. (Of course, some people just continue to chase toxic relationships.)
Psychology Today also notes that: “If a problem has been resolved, such as lack of intimacy or financial stress, couples may reconnect. Problems such as substance abuse, neglecting the marriage and over-focusing on career, and loneliness due to lack of attention from a partner—these are problems that can be resolved with a commitment to couples and/or family therapy and making changes at home.”
Just like a successful first (and only) marriage, a second marriage requires compromise and recognition of the role each spouse plays in a couple’s overall happiness. – WTF fun facts
Source: “Why Many Divorced Partners Remarry Each Other” — Psychology Today